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Friday, November 5, 2010

The Wisdom of Limits - How to be happy with what is

Even if we can't change the reality of a situation, we can choose our respons. The wise know when to be proactive and when to let things be. When we stop trying to control life - and other people - doors open, miracles unfold, and the world is more hospitable. The path of least resistance leads to happiness.

*****Warning*****

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
An I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickles for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple

******Red Hatter Poem******